The Art of Being Understood

About me

Through neuroscience outreach, clinical speech-language pathology experiences, and working with children, I have become increasingly interested in the relationship between communication, emotional regulation, and human connection.

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Why Speech-Language Pathology?

I originally began college studying early childhood education before realizing my curiosity stretched far beyond how communication begins. I became intrigued with how communication can also be lost, reshaped, and rebuilt.

That realization led me towards both speech-language pathology and neuroscience. To me, the two disciplines naturally complement one another. Speech-language pathology focuses on human connection, while neuroscience helps explain the systems working behind the scenes that make communication possible.

Growing up with an unaddressed speech impediment, I understand firsthand how difficult it can feel when your voice is not easily understood. My family did not always have access to educational or therapeutic resources, and because of that, I often spoke less and made myself smaller. Over time, I realized how deeply communication affects confidence, relationships, and a person’s sense of belonging. My experiences contribute to my personal why.

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Learning Through Aphasia and Human Connection

One of the most meaningful experiences in my education came through volunteering with Brain Injury Connections Northwest. I was paired with a kind man living with aphasia, a communication disorder commonly caused by stroke or brain injury.

During our weekly Zoom conversations, we exchanged gardening tips, discussed favorite recipes, and talked openly about the frustrations that can come with communication breakdowns. Some dialogue flowed easily, while others required patience and pauses. Those moments taught me that communication is far more than words alone. It also lives in persistence, empathy, and the willingness to stay present even when expression becomes difficult.

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Cortex and conversation

It continuously scans for meaning in social environments, gauging social cues, including tone, facial expressions, approval, tension, humor, rejection, confidence, threat, and connection. The amygdala can directly impact your autonomic nervous system, perhaps increasing your sympathetic, “fight or flight” responses. It can provoke a stress response from your hypothalamus, leading to stress hormone release from your pituitary glad. And it also informs your cortex, leading to strong feelings.

Amygdala reactions enrich our conversations by adding emotional energy and instinct. That’s why certain comments can instantly make you feel relaxed, excited, defensive, awkward, or engaged before you’ve even fully thought about them.

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It helps organize thoughts, regulate emotions, choose words carefully, read the room, and decide how to respond. It’s what allows someone to stay composed, thoughtful, persuasive, funny, or confident, even under pressure. Your PFC develops where you do, in response to your personal history and experiences, forming network connections with other brain areas involved in perception (Who is here? What is here? How do I feel?), memory (Who are these folks? What happened before in similar circumstances?), attention (What’s important to me? What’s grabbing my focus here?), action (How do I react? What do I say?) and more.

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An overactive amygdala without PFC regulation can lead to anxious, reactive, defensive, or scattered speech. Excessive PFC suppression creates too much control without emotional engagement, and speech can sound flat or robotic. The “ideal” conversational style usually comes from balance: emotionally aware but mentally steady.

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IMAGE SOURCE: Study Reveals Brain Networks Enabling Human Conversation

This is how it looks in real time.

  1. The brain detects emotional and social meaning.
  2. An idea is formed given the stimulus.
  3. Language regions organize words and structure.
  4. Motor systems produce speech.
  5. Feedback systems monitor reactions and adjust accordingly.

Conversations unfold incredibly fast. All of this occurs in a matter of milliseconds!

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The Brain Under Stress

Conversations with both children and my aphasia partner brought increasing awareness to how strongly emotions influence communication. Moments of frustration, embarrassment, or stress often appeared before more considered, conscious processing had time to catch up, which led me to become engrossed by the relationship between the amygdala and prefrontal cortex.

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Working With Children and Emotional Regulation

Outside of PSU, I work mornings and afternoons with children in an elementary after school program through Right At School. This job constantly reminds me how important communication tools are during childhood development.

I enjoy helping kiddos understand emotional regulation in age-appropriate ways by introducing concepts connected to the frontal lobe and self-regulation skills. Although the prefrontal cortex requires significant life experience through adolescence and adulthood to organize effectively, children can still begin building healthy coping strategies early in life.

Many of the children associated anger with immediate reactions and conflict, which mirrored our discussions about how the amygdala responds quickly during moments of stress or frustration.

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Noggin’ Northwest and Making Neuroscience Fun

As a volunteer with Noggin’ Northwest, I participate in neuroscience outreach events at K-12 public schools.

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Those moments remind me that neuroscience is constantly evolving and that learning should stay interactive, creative, and fun. I strongly believe experiences matter more than “stuff.” Hands-on activities, curiosity, and enthusiasm build confidence and create lasting memories connected to learning, and help that relationship between our amygdala and PFC develop effectively.

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